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Elopement, Wedding Planning, 2023 Bride Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Elopement, Wedding Planning, 2023 Bride Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

This is Your Sign to Remarry Your Spouse!

If you're a regular reader of the blog, you know that I (Rebecca) have some serious wedding regret. I can't believe that August 2023 makes five years already! I'm thrilled to announce that I am getting (re)married this August in Colorado's mountains and flower fields! I am even more thrilled to have The Daydreamer Diaries as my photographer and videographer. Hiring her was easy, and I can't wait to be her client.

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Romantic Wedding Inspo, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Colors Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Romantic Wedding Inspo, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Colors Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

5 Romantic Wedding Color Palette Ideas

The soft tones associated with romantic weddings pair very well with greenery, which helps create the perfect romantic setting for your fairy tale wedding. However, the beautiful thing about muted tones is that they pair really well with jewel tones. You can easily add a deep jewel color to your palette to add dimension to your day if you need something extra. You make all the rules, and I encourage you to play with colors in a way that inspires you.

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Creative Photography, Wedding Photography, Blogger Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Creative Photography, Wedding Photography, Blogger Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Meet the Blogger, Rebecca!

I have been here for a few months and realized I haven't said hey and introduced myself! I am Rebecca, the main blogger behind Katie's brand, The Daydreamer Diaries. I hold a bachelor's degree in communications and have been a writer in many different spheres for nearly a decade. I decided to write for Katie because I believe in nontraditional moments. I align with her philosophy of being bold and adventurous. As a friend and professional, Katie has inspired me to romanticize myself and enjoy being human. My greatest honor and privilege is to support her brand with my talents.

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Wedding Planning, Wedding Advice, Nontraditional Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Planning, Wedding Advice, Nontraditional Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

5 Tips to Help You Write Your Wedding Vows

Let’s talk about some tips to help you write your vows. For many, writing vows is one of the most intimidating parts of the wedding planning process. I’ve heard so many people say they can’t write and don’t want to embarrass themselves. With these tips, you will have a great starting point for crafting personal vows that are perfect for you. The best part is that there is no expert writing experience needed! All you need is to show up exactly as you are.

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Let’s Talk About Reverse Wedding Colors!

The concept seems so cool to me, especially for those who don’t have a vision of being a traditional bride in white. It would look pretty badass to wear your favorite color and your wedding party in black. Your wedding photos would be unique, that’s for sure. If you decide to forgo a wedding party, wear color and have your guests wear white (unless you get married after Labor Day, of course). There are endless ideas to make this non-tacky and really interesting and different.

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What Is an Intimate Session?

Intimate photography also referred to as boudoir photography, is an art form that brings love and adoration to the human body. It is an experience meant to empower individuals and couples to see the true beauty in their bodies and individuality. Katie understands the vulnerability required to do this type of shoot and honors the individual experience.

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Wedding Planning, Self Love, Nontraditional Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Planning, Self Love, Nontraditional Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Your Body is Wedding Ready Just As It is

As we're heading through January and I have seen the annual influx of diet culture posts and goals, I wanted to take a moment to say that you are enough. Your body is wedding ready just as it is. I'm going to talk about this because there are not enough wedding photographers talking about it.

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5 Pros of Having a Small Wedding

The one thing that changed positively since Covid-19 was the wedding industry. It makes me so happy to see people taking a nontraditional approach to having a wedding that is more aligned with who they are. It is so awesome to see people less likely to follow huge, stuffy traditions for the sake of tradition. If you're on the fence about what direction to go for your wedding, take a look at 5 pros of having a small wedding, micro wedding, or elopement.

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Elopement, Elopement Location, Urban Elopement, Local Elopement Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Elopement, Elopement Location, Urban Elopement, Local Elopement Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Why To Elope In Dayton's Oregon District

We’ve talked a lot about how the spectrum of what you’re elopement is unbelievably broad! There is something absolutely kick-ass about a cute little urban elopement in a downtown area. Dayton has a special downtown district known as the Oregon District. Between the trendy parking garages (think of the top level overlooking the city), the best bars, beautiful color-popping murals, and unique small businesses, you can have the coolest little celebration with photos that won’t look like your average wedding day.

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Elopement, Elopement Location, Wedding Ideas Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Elopement, Elopement Location, Wedding Ideas Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Location Logistics to Keep in Mind When Eloping

You're engaged, and you've decided to elope! Somehow, that decision is a duality of complete freedom and overwhelming chaos! There are many things to consider when choosing the most important part of eloping; destination. Popular destinations are at your nearby courthouse, an exotic adventure experience, and trendy photo op places across the US. Let's break down some of the logistic considerations of choosing a location.

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2023 Weddings, Wedding Advice, Nontraditional Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger 2023 Weddings, Wedding Advice, Nontraditional Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Congratulations, 2023 Brides & Grooms

Wow! It’s 2023, and it’s your wedding year for some of you! How are you feeling? I know that the pressure might start getting intense. Finalizing things in the upcoming weeks and months might have your head reeling like you’ve made the biggest mistake of your life. I’m going to let you in on a secret; most brides have had feelings of “What the fuck am I doing?!” while planning their wedding days. I just wanted to remind you of a couple of things and offer some pieces of nontraditional advice that I am sure no one else is telling you!

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How To Pick The Perfect Wedding Photographer For You - Price, Personality, and Personal Style Matter

As a photographer, it's important to emphasize that when it comes to interviewing and hiring your photographer, price should not be the only factor to consider. While it's understandable that budget is an important consideration for many clients, it's important to remember that your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime event and the memories you create on that day are irreplaceable. Photography and videography are the tangible, forever memories that will last long beyond your wedding day.

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Wedding Ideas, Post Wedding, Wedding Photography, Photo Display Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Ideas, Post Wedding, Wedding Photography, Photo Display Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

How to Display Your Photos

We spend a good amount of money, which is so worth it, on beautiful images that deserve to be displayed in our homes! There is something extraordinary about making your home feel like a home with beautiful memories decorating the walls. If you’re anything like me, maybe you feel a little bit overwhelmed about how to display your photos. Let’s talk about some easy ways to bring your beautiful photos to your home!

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Wedding Ideas, Weddings, Wedding Planning Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Ideas, Weddings, Wedding Planning Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Reasons to Skip a Wedding Party

I wrote about the benefits of having a mixed-gender wedding party, but would you consider going without a wedding party altogether for your wedding? This is something I wish I would have forgone with my own wedding. Initially, the idea of not having a wedding party can feel so uncomfortable! Isn't a beautiful and large wedding party part of the ideal wedding experience?!

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2022 Wedding, Married Folk, Weddings Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger 2022 Wedding, Married Folk, Weddings Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

A Letter to 2022 Couples

Can you believe this is your first Christmas season married?! Isn’t it wild how this year is almost over in the blink of an eye? 2022 was such an interesting year. Things are seemingly almost normal but completely different at the same time. December is my personal favorite part of the year. It is a blissful time filled with holiday magic and deep reflection on how life has changed in the past 12 months. I want to give you a chance to reflect with me…

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What to Expect When Shooting With The Daydreamer Diaries

What drew me to Katie was her nontraditional approach. Nothing is forced or stand there and say cheese. She knows how to catch movement, authentic laughter and lets the vibe of the shoot speak for itself. Katie isn’t afraid to lean into fun, creative ideas. In fact, her creativity is what speaks volumes about her work being different from others.

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