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5 Tips for the Mother of the Bride

I know that this blog is for folks getting married, but I wanted to chat about something important. Boundaries with parents are a necessity for smooth wedding planning. Maybe you need some help navigating how to set boundaries with your parents, or perhaps you're a parent helping your daughter plan their wedding. If either of these applies to you, this is a blog post for you! Here are five tips for the mother of the bride.

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Romantic Wedding Inspo, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Colors Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Romantic Wedding Inspo, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Colors Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

5 Romantic Wedding Color Palette Ideas

The soft tones associated with romantic weddings pair very well with greenery, which helps create the perfect romantic setting for your fairy tale wedding. However, the beautiful thing about muted tones is that they pair really well with jewel tones. You can easily add a deep jewel color to your palette to add dimension to your day if you need something extra. You make all the rules, and I encourage you to play with colors in a way that inspires you.

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Let’s Talk About Reverse Wedding Colors!

The concept seems so cool to me, especially for those who don’t have a vision of being a traditional bride in white. It would look pretty badass to wear your favorite color and your wedding party in black. Your wedding photos would be unique, that’s for sure. If you decide to forgo a wedding party, wear color and have your guests wear white (unless you get married after Labor Day, of course). There are endless ideas to make this non-tacky and really interesting and different.

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Elopement, Elopement Location, Wedding Ideas Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Elopement, Elopement Location, Wedding Ideas Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Location Logistics to Keep in Mind When Eloping

You're engaged, and you've decided to elope! Somehow, that decision is a duality of complete freedom and overwhelming chaos! There are many things to consider when choosing the most important part of eloping; destination. Popular destinations are at your nearby courthouse, an exotic adventure experience, and trendy photo op places across the US. Let's break down some of the logistic considerations of choosing a location.

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Wedding Ideas, Post Wedding, Wedding Photography, Photo Display Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Ideas, Post Wedding, Wedding Photography, Photo Display Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

How to Display Your Photos

We spend a good amount of money, which is so worth it, on beautiful images that deserve to be displayed in our homes! There is something extraordinary about making your home feel like a home with beautiful memories decorating the walls. If you’re anything like me, maybe you feel a little bit overwhelmed about how to display your photos. Let’s talk about some easy ways to bring your beautiful photos to your home!

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Wedding Ideas, Weddings, Wedding Planning Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Ideas, Weddings, Wedding Planning Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Reasons to Skip a Wedding Party

I wrote about the benefits of having a mixed-gender wedding party, but would you consider going without a wedding party altogether for your wedding? This is something I wish I would have forgone with my own wedding. Initially, the idea of not having a wedding party can feel so uncomfortable! Isn't a beautiful and large wedding party part of the ideal wedding experience?!

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Eco Friendly Wedding, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Eco Friendly Wedding, Wedding Ideas, Wedding Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

What To Do With Your Wedding Flowers After The Wedding

Florals are beautiful and timeless yet entirely unique for your wedding. You have various options, from fake florals to DIY arrangements or professionally crafted pieces. No matter how intricate your florals are for your wedding, you may wonder what happens to the flowers once your wedding is over. Here are some ideas on what to do with your wedding flowers after the wedding.

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Nontraditional Wedding, Wedding Planning, Wedding Ideas Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Nontraditional Wedding, Wedding Planning, Wedding Ideas Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Getting Ready Together as a Couple

Raise your hand if you've been told it is "bad luck" for the groom to see the bride before the ceremony. You spend months planning a day together and are expected to have zero communication in the intimate moments leading up to the altar. For some people, that can be incredibly anxiety-inducing. For many couples, future spouses are our place of calm and comfort. They are one of the only people not bringing more chaos than calmness.

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Wedding Ideas, Wedding Regret, Wedding Mistakes Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger Wedding Ideas, Wedding Regret, Wedding Mistakes Rebecca Kochanek | Blogger

Wedding Regret

I've been married for going on five years, and I regret my wedding. I wish I had been more open to eloping instead of trying to salvage a Pinterest-worthy vision that I knew in my heart would be impossible for me to achieve. Between finances, dysfunctional family, and mental health issues, my dream wedding was never going to happen, and I knew that. I have so much wedding regret because I tried so hard to make things work.

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