9 Alternatives to Diamond Engagement Rings
Have you decided that a diamond ring isn’t for you? Do the ethics of the diamond industry make your skin crawl? If you haven’t, check out our article about the diamond industry (Why We're Saying Goodbye to Diamond Rings). Do you just prefer a more unique stone to symbolize your nontraditional journey with your partner? Your engagement ring should be a reflection of who you are. Your relationship and wedding plans do not have to fit into a stereotypical box. We are here to encourage you to do things that make you happy in every aspect of your wedding. In fact, through our blogs, stories, and photos… we may just inspire you to elope or have a micro wedding. Is that really a bad thing, though? We don’t think so!
When looking for an engagement ring or a wedding band, there are a few things to consider. The first one is the longevity and strength of the stone. Although alternative stones are beautiful, some are not crafted to be worn daily. Keep this in mind when shopping around for a nonconventional ring. Remember to shop within your budget. You can absolutely get an incredible ring without going into debt over a stone. Nontraditional rings can mirror the vibe of a diamond or be completely unique in composition. Let’s look at 9 alternatives to diamond engagement rings.
Lab-grown diamonds
If you still want a diamond ring without the ethics of raw diamonds, a lab-grown diamond will be your best bet. It has the same composition as raw diamonds with better ethics. The differences in the diamonds can only be differentiated with high technology. Because they are sourced in a lab, they are often more affordable as well.
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Moissanite
Moissanite is the second hardest gem in jewelry compared to the diamond. It is a fraction of the price and has almost, if not more, shine than a diamond. It is a beautiful option for brides who want that timeless, beautiful look of a diamond engagement ring without the shady ethics behind the industry. They are lab created and absolutely stunning. You cannot go wrong with a moissanite ring.
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Aquamarine
Although this stone is slightly softer than diamonds, it is beautiful and unique. This blue stone could represent your “something blue” if you choose to have this traditional element in your wedding. It is an attractive option if you’re ready to embrace a colored stone for your engagement and wedding band.
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Emerald
This beautiful green stone is about equal in hardness to aquamarine. It is one of the most customizable stones in shape. You can design your dream ring shape with this stone, which comes in plenty of opaque colors ranges to find a tone that works beautifully for you.
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Morganite
This is a huge trend in the ring industry right now. Its light pink hue makes it more versatile to wear than aquamarine or emerald. Although it’s in the same stone family as aquamarine, it is hard enough to wear daily as long as it’s cared for and stored properly.
Icing on the Ring
Ruby
Ruby rings are not for everyone, but they hold a classic, timeless beauty while being bold for those who run towards colors. They are high-quality stones that can be worn daily but come at a higher price point.
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Sapphire
This elegant stone is one of the most wearable stones regarding hardness. If you can handle and embrace the color, it is one of the most low-maintenance stones you can choose for your wedding set.
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Amethyst
This stone is on the softer side and requires a good amount of maintenance; however, it is affordable and the perfect option for the nontraditional bride. It is an easy stone to get as a bigger setting with a lower price tag.
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Opal
Although this stone is beautiful and known for being an unconventional ring choice, it is crucial to understand how fragile this stone is. Opal is soft and porous and chips easily. It cannot be too wet or dry and often reacts to temperature changes. If you are willing to wear this only occasionally, it is an option for a nontraditional ring. However, just know how much maintenance this type of ring takes to maintain its integrity.
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Hopefully, this list gives you a good idea of what to consider when ring shopping. Remember that you can talk to your partner about what your expectations are for your ring or break all traditions and go shopping together. Break the rules and celebrate your journey with your partner that best suits you! Check out our other articles to help you get inspired about wedding planning.