5 Tips To Help Reduce Regret While Wedding Planning
Wedding planning is a really exciting time for many couples, but it can also become a huge a source of stress and anxiety. With tons of decisions to make and societal pressure to create the perfect day, it's no surprise that many people experience regret during and after the planning process. News flash, it doesn’t have to be a stress fest.
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Here are 5 of my favorite tips to help you reduce regret while you plan your dream wedding:
Set realistic expectations.
One of the biggest causes of regret during wedding planning is having unrealistic expectations. It's important to remember that no wedding is perfect, and it's okay to have some imperfections. Plan the day that you will most enjoy and make decisions based on what you most want to look back on in 10, 15 years from now. When setting expectations, try to be realistic about what you can achieve within your budget and time frame and plan a day for maximum enjoyment.
Plan a wedding you won’t regret down the road.
Don’t make decisions based on how others will perceive those choices. Plan the day that you truly want to experience. Break tradition. Embrace color. Re-write the rules and do it with a smile on your face. This is the day to make “selfish” choices based on the day that you and your partner envision and I’m here to support just that.
Communicate openly with your partner.
Communication is key during wedding planning, and it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your expectations and concerns. Make sure you're both on the same page about what's important to you and what you're willing to compromise on. By working together, you can avoid miscommunications and regrets down the line.
Focus on what's important.
When wedding planning, it's easy to get caught up in the details and lose sight of what's really important. Take some time to reflect on what's truly important to you and your partner, whether it's having your closest friends and family present or having a meaningful ceremony together. Focusing on what's important will help you make decisions that align with your values and priorities, and reduce regrets down the line.
Make “you” centered choices.
It’s your wedding day for crying out loud. You get to make selfish choices. This day is about you and your partner. Not your Aunt Kathy, not your parents or grandparents, not your friends and family…you. It’s okay to fully love all of those people and choose you on your wedding day.
Wedding planning may have a historically bad reputation, but there are positive ways to reduce stress, regret and allow you to enjoy the process. By setting realistic expectations, prioritizing self-care, communicating openly with your partner, focusing on what's important, and knowing that it’s okay to choose you, you can make the most of your wedding planning experience. Remember, the most important thing is that you and your partner are starting your forever, and that's what truly matters.
